Can Anyone Help Me?

[laxplaya1346]

I made a trade and traded my favorite retro pin, the boat one. And now i changed my mind and a dis member refuses to trade back. Anyone have one of those pins for trade? I loved it and i will never trade with that dis member again. He says i accepted so he is not obligated to trade it back if i change my mind. Plz help... i dont no anyone that has one for trade

 

[laxplaya1346]

i do not mention their name because that is their bussiness if they want to be rude.

 

[VirtuallyMe]

Sorry I don't have a pin to trade to you but...

If you did agree upon a trade- felt it was fair enough to accept and carried out the trade then really you can't just "change your mind" and expect the trader to trade back the pin

It really isn't fair for you to expect this person to trade back because you changed your mind- it is one of those things- if you aren't ready to trade then don't do it in the first place- but once you trade if you regret it then you sort of should live with those regrets.

Now I can totally see you saying- "help- I traded my pin and I wish I hadn't does anyone else have this pin to offer?"

But really I'm not sure if many will want to trade with you in the future for fear of you wanting to trade back later if you change your mind. It would have been one thing to accept an offer and then back down before the trade was carried out but once you click accept and then click accept again- you should be more than ready to no longer have what you are trading.

 

[Fairy Dust]

Sorry you made a mistake but I don't think a member is rude just because YOU changed YOUR mind. You have to click accept so many times now before the item is traded over. It's your mistake, not theirs!

I just had a look in my inventory and don't have a spare motor boat pin to trade.

Good luck finding one!

 

[nmudisneyfan]

I agree with what the other players said. You did agree to the trade, so the other player does have the right to not trade back with you. I would suggest from now on not trading anything that you think you might miss. I think that you've hurt your chances of other people trading with you, for fear that you might decide to change your mind once the trade is complete.

 

[Carrieberry]

I agree with the other posters. It is one thing to regret your decision and ask for help here to find another, but it is something else to say the other person is being "rude" becasue they wont trade it back. You made the decision to trade and they took you up in it. They are under no obligation to trade back becasue you changed your mind. It does not make them rude.

 

[laxplaya1346]

fine forget it..

 

[TLinden16]

We all make trades we regret sometimes, Disniplaya. Sometimes, folks will be nice enough to trade back, but not trading back doesn't make them rude. Remember they wanted to make the trade too, so they probably wanted that pin as much as whatever you got for it.

Anyways, I do have that pin. PM me if you want to try to meet up and see if we can come up with a trade.

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