I think it depends on how closely you live to Disney. We used to LOVE Disney; we were married there, so obviously chose to spend the most special day of our lives with them
But now that we live right by Disney, a lot of the magic has worn off. Much of that is because, as locals, we get to see some of the effects that Disney has on the area, instead of just looking at it as a wonderful, magical fantasy vacation land. We now have to think about our neighborhood, and watch the wildlife habitats go steadily under, watch the schools flood with Caribbean children whose parents have moved here to work as custodial staff at WDW and 192 hotels, etc., etc., etc. So it's concerning to us, as residents here, to see what Disney's existence is doing to the community.
It's also concerning to see some of the places off of 192 like that Arabian Nights show, and even Universal Studios do more to support the communities here. Arabian Nights has a big literacy effort with the Osceola County schools, and Universal and Cypress Gardens give teachers free tickets, whereas there aren't things like this for Disney. I'm a teacher, so I watch the school systems get crushed with the large influxes of CM children, but don't see anything being done to mitigate that impact.
We use Disney more as a state park-type system. We go for walks around and around and around Epcot, for exercise. We grab a quick bite to eat there, because we're living right off of 192 now and Disney restaurants are clean & affordable, compared to the filth we've seen on 192.
But I definitely never used to think of Disney as just a place to exercise and grab a quick bite to eat. We will be spending our anniversary there, because it's our tradition, but we're cutting the trip much shorter than normal, because we're just not wild about Disney as a vacation spot any more. And that, I think, is very sad for us.
But, to answer your question, if you were farther away, or if you didn't have a strong sense of concern for your community, you could live here and still like Disney just fine.
Cheers!
Heather W