DLI - If only you were closer - we'd gladly dog sit and chauffer you guys to the airport so DH would feel better about going!

That's a very generous gesture on his part -- you've got a "good man" there! Leave your ADR's alone - no one is going to say anything about them (we've added and subtracted headcount over the years - and one never makes a difference). Is there any neighbor that you could "trade" dog sitting/chauffer services for when you get back (i.e watch their kids (or elderly parents), clean their house, cut lawns, house sit, dog/cat sit for them, etc?). With so many people out of work and trying to cut back -- the "service bartering" amongst neighbors has become huge deal in many places. Just a thought.....Hope it all works out for you guys!