Things are starting to look up for my dd at FSU.  She accepted a bid to pledge a coed service/volunteer oriented frat.   She is an official pledge now and said she has already met so many nice people.  She has been in school for 7 weeks and really had only made 2 friends.  So I think this coed frat may open up many more doors for her.   And in the long run...help to bring her out of her breakup depression.  She and I chatted on the phone until 2 am last night and she was the happiest I have heard her sound since early August.  Good feeling.......
PS horselover :  Guess what service/volunteer project my dd signed up for for Oct 10 ??  They are volunteering to help at a rescue horse shelter !   She is very excited about it.   Just wanted to share........
Maria