The first thing to do is to decide what area of WDW you plan to be in on each day. This is tricky, especially for someone who has never been there before and has no idea what to expect (don't know if this is you or not, but in general).
A good resource to help you with this is
www.easywdw.com. It's free and offers park suggestions on which park to visit which day. And the guy who created it resides on these boards too! (Even though I once gave him a rather harsh QA of his site when it was first coming online

)
Once you get a general idea there, start finding restaurants that you think you may like in the general vicinity of where you plan to be. (Or, you can start making lists of restaurants at the same time, it works either way).
Once you get the two lists as rough outlines, then you can start searching for ADRs. At this late in the game, you're going to have to be a bit flexible as far as times and locations, but you will find somewhere to eat for every meal you need to.
With the
DDP (
Disney Dining Plan which is what I'm assuming you mean. This is the 1 Counter, 1 Table, 1 Snack per night of stay plan), you're going to want to focus on sit down dinners mostly. Otherwise, you may end up spending more by being on the plan than you would had you done the same thing not on the plan. (Doesn't have to be ALL dinners, but I'd say for every 1 non-dinner, do at least 2 dinners)
Some suggestions taking travel into consideration
- MK Day
- Crystal Palace (MK) - Buffet with Pooh and the Gang
- Liberty Tree Tavern (MK) - Dinner is a perpetual Thanksgiving Feast (basically). I actually prefer lunch here as I'm not a fan of the Thanksgiving Fare, but I'm a little weird.
- Kona Cafe (Poly - Monorail from MK)
- 'Ohana (Poly - Monorail from MK) - Breakfast is with Mikey, Pluto, Lilo, and Stitch. Dinner is a family style meat-on-skewers type of meal. 'Ohana dinner may be out though, as it's now the single toughest reservation to get on property.
- 1900 Park Fare (Grand Floridian - Monorail from MK) - Dinner is with Cinderella, Prince Charming, and Cindy's step-family. From what I hear it's a very good time.
- Whispering Canyon Cafe (Wilderness Lodge - Boat from MK) - An uproarious restaurant with silly antics by the staff.
- Epcot Day - There are numerous restaurants in Epcot. Pretty much at least one for every taste.
- San Angel Inn or La Hacienda de San Angel (Epcot-Mexico) - Both are very good traditional Mexican restaurants with Hacienda being more grilled type of fare. Neither are Tex-Mex or Taco/Burrito type places though.
- Akershus (Epcot-Norway) - Princesses galore and a picture included. May not be the best choice if your two kids are boys
. All meals are reportedly good here, but again, I'm weird and only really think I'd like the breakfast (which I have done and was very good).
- Teppan Edo (Epcot-Japan) - A perennial favorite of these boards. Has communal seating though, and if you have a local good hibachi near you, may not be anything special
- Chefs de France (Epcot-France) - Another favorite around here, especially for lunch. Potential Remy (from Ratatouille) sightings in the dinner hours as well.
- Le Cellier (Epcot-Canada) - A decent steakhouse and one of the better values on the DDP. Note that dinner is now 2 credits and not that great a deal on the normal DDP, so lunch would be preferred. However, this is also a very difficult to get ADR.
- Garden Grill (Epcot-The Land) - A family style meal with Mickey, Pluto, Chip, and Dale. Another difficult ADR due to limited time they are open.
- Cape May (Beach Club Resort - Walk from Epcot for Dinner) - Breakfast may be a bit difficult to get to, but it has Mickey, Minnie, ... and a couple others. Dinner is a seafood buffet (it has other stuff though).
- DHS Day - (This is the trickiest one for me...)
- Cape May - As above. Also walkable or a boat ride away from DHS.
- Mama Melrose (DHS) - Simple Italian fare
- 50s Prime Time (DHS) - Good old home cooking with long lost relatives.
- AK Day
- Tusker House (AK) - Breakfast has Mickey, Daisy, Goofy, and Donald (who sometimes roams, sometimes just takes a picture at the entrance) and is a very good buffet with a few more adventurous items (and long standing favorites). Lunch/Dinner is a bit more African flare
- Yak & Yeti (AK) - Reportedly very good Asian influenced food.
- Boma (Animal Kingdom Lodge) - A large buffet with many African inspired items.
- Sanaa (Animal Kingdom Villas - Kidani) - African/Asian/Indian type dishes. I hear this is VERY good and really looking forward to my meal there in Sept.
So yeah, that's a long list, but it should get you started. It also should display how I personally group restaurants to fit best into each day (note, I only use Disney transportation, though I did take a cab from Jiko back to CSR last year). If you have your own transportation, it'll free you up from these groupings a bit as well.
It's a lot of information to swallow at once, I'm sorry, but once you get going, it won't be so bad at all.
(And lawl @ "Post Quick Reply" as if anything I ever write is a "quick reply")