I would choose Wine and Dine because Disney is always so beautiful with the Christmas decorations. Or possibly Star Wars because of the Flower and Garden Festival and the warm weather.
The princess race weekend... to me, it seems a lot of people do this as a "girls weekend" and to be honest, I find some women get kind of obnoxious/self centered...not everyone, but definitely some I've observed.
And the past couple years, marathon weekend has been pretty cold, and this past year very crowded...