Bedwetting - miracle solution for us

LKS

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My youngest turned 6 this past summer and still required a pull-up at night which was regularly soaked. I patiently waited until he turned six, because medical advice I read was to wait until then, and discussed it with the pediatrician. He promptly offered meds. I had read about the alarm and asked him about it. He said, "Oh sure, if you want to do that, but insurance won't pay for it." Well fine, not a problem for me. Didn't want to medicate if I didn't have to.

So, we ordered the alarm online from a place called the bedwetting store. I had already asked my son if he wanted to try it, and he thought it was cool. He was so excited and kept asking for it until it was here. The day it arrived we practiced manually turning it on and letting him turn it off and he wore it that night. Well, for two weeks it went off every night. He got himself up (part of the plan), turned off the alarm, changed to dry, changed the pad on the bed etc.... They also recommend measuring urine output - and the results there were discouraging. He must have a very, very small bladder. Well, one night we had a big party and he had unlimited access to soda - almost unheard of in our house. I was ready for the deluge. But, amazingly, he was dry for the first time ever. Next night, dry again. We continued to have him wear the alarm for 2 more weeks, also part of the plan - no accidents. Well, now in about 6 months, he has had 2 or 3 very minor accidents! I am a convert.

I just wanted to throw that out there, because you very rarely hear anyone mention a child bed-wetting or what they did that helped. In our case there is a family history of problems to much older ages and I didn't want my son to get old enough to be embarrassed or anything. We were always totally low-key about the whole thing and he was never worried about it, he just thought the technology was cool - like a bedtime toy. Boy was he proud to be dry though. And all that money saved on pull-ups has already paid for the alarm. Now it can go for Disney tickets or something else fun.
 
Great job! Thanks for the post. :jumping1: I hope he gets his fill of Mickey ice cream bars.:teeth:
 
Congrats to your son!! I also had a bedwetter. He stopped at about age 5 1/2 and we also have a family history. Where did you get the alarm? I have a friend who's daughter could use some help. Thanks.
 

Thank you for this information!

We just returned from a wonderful trip in Disney, and I looked up this post for the web address. My daughter (6 1/2) picked out the light blue alarm and we're looking forward to beginning. As a psychologist, I understand the importance of conditioning, but my ped constantly said, "she'll grow out of it" and I didn't know where to look for a good "bell and pad" (what they used to be called, but today's brands are so much "cooler").

Wendy
 
My oldest DD was still bedwetting (infrequently, like once a month) at 8 years old. Her pediatrician didn't seem to think it was such a big deal (he is a bit too laid back, come to think of it!) but I wish I had known about this device when she was 6 or so, and wetting quite a bit more.

Schmeck, who still remembers leaving a big tip for the CM who had to take care of the bed at CBR after DD wet it our last night!
 
Thank you for posting this information. My DS who is 5 still wets the bed. He'll be turning 6 soon and I want to try this! :) No one else in our family has had this problem and we were not getting any help from our pediatrician. So thank you!

When we were at WLV in Nov he soaked his pullup 3 different nights and we had to wash the sheets on his bed. That was no fun, but we were thankful we had access to a washer and dryer. This problem did not stop us from having fun at WDW! :yo-yo:
 
LKS - I am so glad to see your positive post about this alarm. I have been considering it for a year for my 5 yr old DS. After reading your experience I think I must try it! We can't seem to get his dry nights regular. Thanks for posting!
 
Thank you SO much for posting this! :)

I also have a 6yo (son) who is still wetting the bed. We try not to make too big of a deal out of it, but he's getting to the age where it is really starting to bother him (he also has a 3 yo brother who is now in underwear 24/7). I have a checkup appt scheduled with our ped...but she've never been concerned and is happy to wait it out as well.

Are your bedwetting children heavy sleepers? Does the alarm still wake them up?
 
My daughter was also a bed wetter at age 6 when her doctor presribed a medication for her. I don't recall the name of the medicine since it was almost 5 years ago but it worked wonders. He gave her a total of 6 pills to try out. One pill was to be taken at night before bedtime. She only took the pill for 3 nights and we've never had an accident since. She was such a heavy sleeper. It seems like by taking the pill, she was able to wake up. It sure did work for us!
 
We used that alarm on our daughter, it was wonderful. A friend had gone through the same thing with her daughter and recommended the device. My daughter was 6 when we tried it and I almost gave up, we were waking up 2-3 times a night for a week and I thought she'd never be trained. 7 days on the nose and she's never wet the bed again! My husband wet the bed until he was almost 10, he has very embarrasing stories, so he was all for this device. We think it's great!
 
Yes, it does wake up the heavy sleepers, but not the first few nights. It was me that was waking up and taking her to the bathroom and re-working the alarm for the rest of the night. It's just great, because when they become aware that they're still wearing a pullup and little sister/brother aren't it starts to mess up their self-esteem. We went through not making a big deal of it but after a while you want to help them, so they can go on overnights with others!
 
Yes, my son was a very deep sleeper and he did wake up, at least eventually. I'm not sure how long that alarm was buzzing, because our room is on the other side of the house. He got up and took care of everything himself, and that's part of the system.

Glad the info was helpful. I know it was kind of OT for a Disney board.
 
Thanks for your post. I have an 8 year old who would sleep through an earthquake. He wakes up practically every morning with a very wet pullup. Last week we were out of pullups, so I made him go to the bathroom right before bedtime and then woke him up at 11:00 or so to go again. I also tried limiting fluid intake after 6 pm. He would still wet the bed. One night he was already wet by 11:00 when I went in to wake him.

I got really tired of washing his sheets every day, so I went and bought the pullups.

My pediatrician says that she doesn't prescribe any medicine for her patients b/c she doesn't care for them, but recommended the alarm system. I'm just afraid it wouldn't wake him up. Like others' doctors, mine keeps saying he'll grow out of it, but he's almost 8 1/2! My DH was older when he stopped wetting the bed, so my DS has that working against him as well.

I may look into trying the alarm. Thanks again!

Lori P. :)
 
I'm glad you had success with the alarm...my son now 11 wasn't as fortunate....we tried 2 different alarms at 2 different times plus countless types of meds....

What finally has worked for us is waking him between 1030 and 1130 each night....but this has only worked since Nov....But at his age I'm happy for him to have some type of relief....

To all the parents of bedwetters it is a tough road take every option you can because they all don't work but you might get lucky even if it didn't work for someone else...
 
Our little princess is almost 7 and still struggles. It is especially hard on her becuase her little brother has been in underwera since he was just over 2. Our routine is to get her up and carry her to the potty around 10:30 each night. Unless he has had an accident before then (about 3-4 times a month) this works well. She is such a deep sleeper that she doesn't remember me getting her up every night at 10:30. We are hoping that she will "grow out of it"
 
We've been using our alarm for 6 nights now -- we got the Malem that has an auditory and vibrating alarm. I pin it on my dd's underhirt on her shoulder near her ear. It is a tiring proposition mainly for the parent -- especially for me, since I have a hard time going back to sleep -- dd is doing well.

The first night we were up 3 times (once 3 hrs after going to bed; then at 2:30; then again at 6:30am). The second night only twice -- 2am; and at 6:30 am -- but she was already out of bed and running to the bathroom when she "leaked". Two more nights just once around 2-3am -- one night she slept through it.
Last night she was up at 3:30 and already out of bed when I got there -- she had gone only a few drops -- the bed wasn't even wet.

I would wholeheartedly recommend the full "package" that includes a book -- I think many parents/kids don't have success because giving up too soon or not following pretty distinct instructions. Had I not had the book, I would have made mistakes (i.e., it takes an average of 10 weeks for total success; the first week or so the child may not hear the alarm; don't turn off the alarm until the child's feet are on the floor and they can go to the bathroom on their own, etc). The double set of absorbant pads is great also.

Wendy
 
Same problem here for my 6 year old son. Stoped the drinks after 6pm, took him to the bathroom all throught the night, still was soaked at 6am. The urologist said it's considered normal until they are 13.
I was worried about this at Disney as well since many nights the sheets are soaked.
I had no idea there was an alarm, I have to try it. Glad to know there are other people out there going through the same thing.
 
DD, now 11, and still bed wetting Yes it is a family trait, not me , thank god , but DH, admitted it was an issue for him until 12 ( sure, tell me now, but I guess this is not something you ask whiile dating):teeth: We to tried alarms, but she sleeps like the DEAD All that happened was that I would wake her up and shut the alarm We have had to use adult depends, imagine the expense She had even gotten used to the dailey showers in the am as a fact of life.:earseek: But, she has begun a med called DDAVP ( very long name), and for the first time, has been dry for over 8 days:D :bounce: :Pinkbounc :bounce: Maybe this will be the last mattress we purchase We tried EVERYTHING, waking her up was horrible, she would fall asleep in school !! I also DID NOT WANT MEDS, but, had no choice, Pediatrician indicates she will grow out of it, but we have been waiting a long long time, and the regular purchase of bedding and mattress has gotten out of control ( the plastic bed covers always ripped). The meds need to be tirated for each child, so, there are alternatives out there, remember I'm talking 11 years old here So, anyone with an older child, the DDAVP really works.:)
 
I know this is probably a really stupid question, but would you want to buy an alarm second-hand? Would that be really scuzzy?
 


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