My DS picked O'hana's for his 16th b'day dinner in Jan - I had mentioned it was a birthday when I booked and asked for a table near the window to watch Wishes - he feigned total embarrassment (well, maybe he wasn't faking

) when the lovely Hawaiian MC came to the table with all the kids and they circled around him with their instruments and sang HB

- the rest of us enjoyed it !! The part he didn't mind was how she kept telling him how handsome he was !! We had a great table to watch the fireworks, but the boys ate so quickly that we were done a bit early and they wanted to head over to PI - so we left our table 20 min before Wishes (made the day for some other family, I'm sure, and we had gotten to watch from there on my birthday) and DH and I walked down and watched the fireworks from one of the cabanas on the beach - much more romantic for us !!!
DS wasn't at all interested in wearing a b'day button, but others of us have on our birthdays and it's a lot of fun. I had read a tip on the DIS that someone made a little sign that said "Today's my b'day" and held it up behind their teen throughout the day when they saw characters, etc. We didn't end up spending much park time with the boys, so I spared him that but thought it was a cute idea!
We booked the Segway tour on the morning of his b'day - you have to be 16 to ride and he has always been fascinated with this technology - it was the highlight of the trip - something I know he'll never forget doing on his 16th !!!
The other thing I did was order a guitar themed candy basket from Feralpeg that was waiting for him at HRH - it was adorable and the boys loved having their own little stash of candy.
Have a blast - celebrating b'days at WDW is sooo much fun.
