Goofy' Kitchen at D/L Hotel was ok - we went for dinner but it's too far for me to be bothered walking but many like it & don't mind the walk. You will only see ~ 4 characters there though.
We prefer Minnie's B/F at Plaza Inn in D/L - loads of characters (the most of any character meal).
We usually schedule it on our Magic Morning - go in at rope drop, get 2-3hrs of rides done while the park is at its quietest then sit down to a relaxed B/F at 10 - 10.30am
We haven't done
Legoland but it's supposed to be great for kids your age.
I don't think the VIP tour is worth it but hey, if you can afford the cost and want to do it why not : )
In AUD it's something like 4 K from memory? (You have to factor in a tip on top of the quoted price - I think I read on here recently that can be a few hundred USD but I guess that comes down to the individual- I'm not certain what the correct or proper protocol is)
To me personally it's not worth it.
We use a planning program (Ridemax) to work out our days - at least a guide/ or start to the day - don't always stick to it, just gives you an idea of the best way to go about it.
After 6 trips we really shouldn't need to use it but I can't help myself : )
We did do a VIP tour of Universal Studios Hollywood last year - whilst it was ok & lunch was really lovely - no way was it worth the cost. It isn't priced anywhere near D/L's but still pretty $$$. We'd been several times before and mostly bought express pass & I would definitely do that again but not the VIP.
D/L is much bigger than Universal however hence it's more $$$.
My son & I will be back again in Sept - we too have the 10day ticket - we will be there for 8 days in Anaheim, we are only doing
Disneyland / DCA this trip - so many things we still haven't done.
Also going to a couple of the Mickey's Halloween Parties (end of Sept)
We will likely do the WOC Dessert Party again and the Fantasmic Dining Pkg at Blue Bayou.
Best of luck with whatever you decide - I'm sure you would like the VIP tour but to me personally it's not worth the cost.