wow, interesting thread. Anyway...
I was mortified and sad to see that tape. A child should never, ever have to go through something like that. It made me cry.
With that said, this woman needs to be dealt with appropriatly as the law allows and hopefully a judge will throw in some mandated counseling. Hopefully, she will want that counseling and it will make a difference.
I believe, as humans, we have all done things we are not proud of, actually down right ashamed of. I know I have. None of us can stand here and judge another. It is so easy to do though, it's something that I try so hard not to do, but it happens.
I am praying for this little girl, her siblings and her mother.