Caltha said:
I have been wondering this same question myself. We are going in January 7-17, should I have a touring plan for my family of five. 2 Adults 3 kids 14 ,12, 9.
We have never been before, but I don't want to ruin the experience by making everyone stick to a plan all day. I can imagine the minute we walk into a park the kids will want to ride the first thing they see. I don't want to be spending all day saying NO!!, we will come back to that later when its on the "plan", so to speak. What shall I do??
Caltha,
You have probably guessed that I am in favor of having a plan. It is a distinct advantage if you have never been to Disney World before because the parks are just so overwhelming. You are going at a low season so it isn't as big a deal. Here's what we tell our kids -
We have a sheet with the name and a brief description of every attraction followed by a blank space. Send a PM w/ your email address and I'll be happy to send it to you if I can remember where I saved it. You can do the same thing in the margin of your book, right next to the attraction description. We sit down with the kids and use three symbols - a smiley face, flat face, and a frown face (it is very scientific). The kids rate the importance of each attraction to them. We tell the kids, "We will make sure you get to do everything that is a priority to you and most of the things that you are at least interested in. We're going to have to follow a bit of a plan because we want to make sure we cover everyone's priorities. By the way - we rate these for ourselves too. We believe that the parents are part of the family on the family vacation. My kids have always done just fine with this system. We have gotten off a ride and gotten right back on - which you'll be able to do in January.
We also have a "civil code" that we use on the trip that encourages the family to avoid torturing one another:
Civil Code 1: You are not responsible for anyone else having a good time anyone who cant have fun at Disneyworld should seek professional help. However, you may not do things that actively interfere with another persons positive experience. This even applies to people we do not know. Examples:
1. Being loud as you walk past other hotel rooms or excessive thumping around if we are not on the ground floor.
2. Making anyone feel stupid for liking Its a Small World or any other attraction.
3. Being rowdy or obnoxious on rides or in lines.
Civil Code 2: We will be spending a lot of time together. We will share small spaces, get tired, and get hot. This is a potential breeding ground for hurt feelings. Please be careful in your teasing. The comment that is taken in fun at home might be taken seriously by a hot, tired, hungry person.
Civil Code 3: Please be responsible for your own belongings. Only take as much into the parks as you are comfortable carrying all day. Our hotel rooms are not large please be sensitive to your roommates comfort and do not spread your belongings everywhere.