Anyone else with a rotten Thanksgiving?

monkey68

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This has to be one of the worst Thanksgivings I could ever remember. Seriously. I don't even know where to begin. Normally, we do Thanksgivings at my grandparents place, but they've been sick lately, and weren't up to doing Thanksgiving, so we had it at my parents place. My sister's FIL is in the hospital, dying basically. He's not in good shape at all, kidney failure, brain swelling, heart failure, basically not a good situation. So his family obviously wasn't up to doing any holidays. So we were still going to do a small lunch/dinner with our family. My other grandma recently broke her arm and refused to come to dinner because she was afraid that her sister would call, and see that she's not at home and get angry. Yep, my grandma is scared of her sister. Then, we get a call from the para my mom works with, who I'm also close to, she insists I call her "Auntie." Well, she's been admitted to the hospital, getting blood transfusions because she was bleeding from places people are not supposed to bleed from.

In the middle of cooking, the water turns brown. There's a lot of construction going on in my neighborhood, so probably one of the pipes broke. But of course, we still had potatoes to boil and veggies to wash, so I ran outside to buy 4 gallons of water. Our potatoes were cooked in Poland Spring water. I come back, go into the guest room where I'm staying since my mom decided to sleep on my bed because she gets too hot at night sleeping next to my dad lately, and there is steam shooting out of the radiator. Yep, the radiator broke.

So yea, not one of the better Thanksgivings. My sister came by because her inlaws don't want her at the hospital, and she didn't want to stay home alone. But why is it that everything just piles up at once?
 
I'm sorry, when it rains it pours huh :hug:
 
I had a similarly rough Thanksgiving a few years ago. The memories of that "holiday" still ache.

Hugs to you. :hug:
 

I am sorry you are having a rotten holiday, but I am right there with you. Dh is in Iraq, my water is off due to a slab leak, and my son has a really icky stomach bug.

Sometimes it seems like nothing will go right, but I am trying to think about all the things I do have. My husband I have a solid marriage and a happy home with our kids, our health is good, and I am pretty sure I have enough to cash on hand to deal with this latest house issue. I am luckier than a lot of people.

:grouphug: :grouphug: Hugs to you and I hope that things get better soon. Sometimes when things hit all at once it gets overwhelming. I will say a prayer for your family.
 
My wallet and brand new bottles of xanax and adderall fell out of my purse at the bar last night. I spent this morning filing a police report and trying to get in contact with my doctor, to no avail. A very nice young man turned up at my house this afternoon and returned my wallet to me, intact, saying he found it underneath the table I was sitting at, which is where I thought it would be. My medications, however, are still gone, and I'm going to have to try contacting my doctor in the morning to get new prescriptions. I'm hoping that it won't be a problem because I have a police report. I'm sure they were stolen and whoever found them probably sold them all and made a few hundred dollars off my medication. So, yeah, my Thanksgiving sucked, with the exception of the nice guy who returned my wallet intact, which I am very thankful for.

*(I carry my xanax and adderall in their pill bottles because they're heavily abused street drugs and if for some reason I got searched by the police [I'm 22 and I have bright pink hair, so you never know], I want it to be quite clear that those pills are prescribed to me.)
 
I'm sorry you are having a rough holiday. Here's to hoping that the next one is MUCH better. :hug:
 
I'm sorry you're having such a rough holiday. This hasn't been my best Thanksgiving either, I have to admit. My mother died a little over a month ago, and her birthday was this past Sunday. My husband and I are going through a divorce. He came over to have dinner with younger DS (age 17) and me. He (ex-DH, not DS) is moping and acting like I'm destroying his life, which doesn't make for a festive holiday. Our older DS (age 19) is in South Carolina with his grandparents. This is the first Thanksgiving I've been away from him since he was born.

Even so, I spent today thinking of all the things I have to be thankful for. I have two fantastic kids, a job that I love, and I'm healthy. When I look around me, I realize that I really don't have it so bad, even in an "off" year.
 
Yeah, on Monday I found out that my ROTC scholarship is being pulled because of my grades. I can't afford my college anymore. My parents won't let me live at home (this isn't a matter of money to them). Unless I want to take out $120,000 in student loans, I'll have to drop out soon. Bleh.
 
:hug:

Sorry you're having such a rough Thanksgiving. I can relate as I've had a few of those, too.
 
:hug: Hugs for all of you that had a rough day today. I hope next year is better and many of the hardships will be things that can be remembered with laughter in years to come (at least the brown water...).
 
I already find the brown water kind of amusing. It's like, on top of everything else, the water turns brown. Sometimes, when things get that bad, the only thing you can do is laugh. Oh, and did I mention that I spent half the day sick to my stomach because of all the Aleve I've been taking? Yeppers, I'm getting surgery in a couple weeks to take care of this ridiculouly painful tendonitis problem in my wrist, so until then, I'm taking Aleve and icing it, but it makes me nauseous.

At least the good news, I listened to a voicemail that I got yesterday, turns out it was my surgeon's office. I had asked if I could get a note stating that I would be going to pre-op on whichever day, and surgery on the other day, so I could get excused from my labs and classes. The secretary told me that he might not be able to write me a letter for the pre-op day, since that is done at the hospital. I could always have gotten one from the hospital the day I went, but it's easier if I get it earlier. So I got a message saying that the doctor will write me a letter for my classes for my pre-op date, as well as surgery and the next couple days after before my winter break starts. So that's sorta good news, right?
 
:( these sound like really bad thanksgivings. we canceled ours. i am too sick to cook and even if i did, i wouldn't be able to taste anything. :( :(
 
One year we had a storm and our power went out right in the middle of cooking the turkey. That was rather inconvenient...

Good luck with your surgery, monkey68.
 
I'll put an honorary vote in for whoever was in the overturned and totalled car surrounded by firetrucks we passed on our way to dinner.
 
Just adding on to my story...

My doctor called me this morning and wrote new prescriptions for me, no problem. Medicaid, however, refuses to pay for them. They don't care that my medication was stolen and I have a police report. Just, nope, we won't pay, tough cookies! Luckily, my mother was able to give me the money to pay for my medication out of pocket. Otherwise, the lovely folks at Medicaid would be paying for me to be in the hospital for benzodiazepine withdrawal.
 

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