How dare you say you are dissapointed with Disney!!!
... Just Kidding!
In all honesty, it's not for everyone. I completely understand what the OP meant by feeling rushed, having ADR's and such... WDW can be a relaxing vacation... but more often than not it turns into a ride every ride, see every show, eat every snack, make it to all ADR's, park hop between all 4 parks in one day sort of commando marathon... especially on your first trip. I enjoyed WDW when I used to go and do that however now that we take longer trips and don't feel the need to see and do everything, we can take time to stop and smell the roses (hooray for cliche's

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WDW is really going to be what you make of it. I know that had I read these boards before taking a trip to WDW I would be so overwhelmed and have felt like I would have to do so many things or I wouldn't be getting the true experience. Realistically, many things on this board are blown way out of proportion and you don't have to do it all to truly "feel the magic".
Over-planning is probably the number one killer of first time wdw vacations... it's really hard to plan that far in advance when you haven't ever been there so you have no idea what will/won't work for your particular family. What one DISer may or may not like or feel is worth doing is going to be completely different from what you may or may not like and feel is worth doing... but on here the things we do like are so blown over the top (with good reason darnit!

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In fact, constantly thinking about having to do this or that usually is the reason why many families who take trips don't enjoy themselves and end up feeling like they just wasted their hard earned money. I can't tell you the countless times I have seen families running around trying to hit every ride/show and completely missing the magic that is going on around them.
But some people will not like it.. and will never like it, and that's fine to each their own

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Oh and to tinker-tude: Yeah I have seen some of what you are talking about the past few trips to WDW... well except the CM's, the one's I spoke to were all the same happy go lucky disney-types that I have always seen at WDW. I think they should definetely be made aware of these things that we are noticing.. I would suggest sending that to wdw guest communications so atleast they understand that.. we are watching you.....
