Well, I pointed out about a page back that I HAVE had someone close to me die in an accident. It doesn't make me feel any differently. Anymore than I would stop hunting (and I don't hunt anyhow) if someone close to me were killed by gun.
Anyhow, I responded to that comment only because I was told, and I quote, "Bite Me." Nobody has the high moral ground here. Many of us who have no problem with drinking and driving have had terrible things happen in our lives at the hands of drunk drivers. They are not related.
And frankly, I get the sense that even froggy knows she's wrong the way she's fighting back so hard. It's emotion, just misplaced emotion.