Any Suggestions for 5 yr old's Fear of Flying?

PizzieDuster

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My DD5, remembers her last plane trip from California to Florida for our WDW/Cruise trip. What she remembers most is her ears hurting her.

Besides the gum, does anyone have any suggestions?
 
It might be worth seeing your pediatrician before you go. Here's a cut-n-paste from WebMD.com:

EAR PRESSURE AND FLYING

We have all heard the painful cry of babies as the plane is landing. Perhaps, we have felt unexpected ear pressure or pain ourselves with altitude changes. If you are susceptible to “airplane ears”, there are some things that can help.



Why does it happen? The middle ear is supposed to be filled with air at the same atmospheric pressure as the outside world. It is the job of the tiny eustachian tubes to make sure this happens, but they don't always work as well as we would like. When we have a cold or allergy, the eustachian tubes may become swollen, and thus unable to regulate pressure. Minor pressure may feel like fullness, an ear that will not "pop", or even a strange crackling sensation. When the pressure is severe, the pain may be quite impressive.

What To Do Before You Fly



Adults:



If you have a cold or allergy problem, talk to your doctor about prescribing or recommending some medications that may help prevent “airplane ears”. These include oral or short-acting nasal decongestants, antihistamines, or prescription nasal steroids sprays. Since many of these medications have side effects or problems for people with high blood pressure, heart disease, pregnancy, thyroid disease, etc., you should NOT self-prescribe (or treat others for that matter) without first consulting your medical provider.


Yawning and swallowing will open the eustachian tubes. Many seasoned travelers chew gum, suck on mints or candy, or slowly drink water during take-off or landings.


“Popping your ears”: If nothing has worked to prevent the ear pain, you may need to unblock your ears by this pressure equalization maneuver: Pinch your nose and close your mouth. Try to direct the air to the back of your throat and then gently blow (not to hard!) to increase the pressure, directing the air up the eustachian tube. If you hear or feel a “pop” your ears should “open”. This maneuver may need to be repeated throughout your descent.


A special type of ear pressure-regulating earplug (EarPlanes) available at pharmacies or the airport convenience stores may be worth trying during ascent and decent.

Infants and Children:



1. Like adults, infants with ear infections should not fly. If possible, the trip should be postponed for a few days to give the antibiotic a chance to work.



With the permission of your medical provider, infant decongestant nasal sprays can be safely used for children over the age of two. It is used about one hour before flying (or one hour before landing). For children younger than age two, certain oral decongestants (like pseudoephedrine) can be used. Saline (salt water) nasal sprays may also be helpful in the dry air of an airplane.


During landing (and even take-off), babies should be encouraged to either breast or bottle-feed to encourage swallowing. Older children can drink from a cup.


If the ear pain does not go away upon landing, your medical provider should be consulted. It is not unusual for infants and young children to develop middle ear infections after a recent plane flight.
 
I found the having a pack of some really chewy candy like Starburst, Skittles carmels or taffy kept my kids chewing long enough to get to cruising altitude, and it was tastier than chewing gum.;)
 
I was told when my kids were little to give them a juice box (the ones that come with the skinny straws) to drink on take off and landing. It seemed to help them as they never had a problem with their ears.
 

Ditto on what others have suggested ~

I feel your pain!! Our ped recommended using a small dose of Benadryl to keep the tubes open, therefore preventing pain. It worked like a charm, yet not enough to put them to sleep. Also, I highly recommend 'ear plane' plugs (come in children's size also). They are a lifesaver for me!! Once they are in, you usually feel no pain. I even used them for my 74yo DM who has ear problems
and they saved the day!!

Best wishes,
~ Sandie
 
Originally posted by 4nana
Ditto on what others have suggested ~

I feel your pain!! Our ped recommended using a small dose of Benadryl to keep the tubes open, therefore preventing pain. It worked like a charm, yet not enough to put them to sleep. Also, I highly recommend 'ear plane' plugs (come in children's size also). They are a lifesaver for me!! Once they are in, you usually feel no pain. I even used them for my 74yo DM who has ear problems
and they saved the day!!

Best wishes,
~ Sandie

Sandie.... I never would have EVER thought of this.....! EAR PLANE PLUGS..... crazy is that I always carry plugs for ME to snooze..... never thought of my younger children.... thank you so much!

GenieDanie: That was great information. I'm so excited for the trip I never thought to research this. I mean, I just knew about gum! But as she becomes more expressive, it really has become a topic of concern.

Great tips, great tips! Thank you so much DISers..... The juice boxes... starburst, etc. This is why I love these boards......
 
DS is 6, has flown 3 times, and all three times has had an ear infection (lucky, aren't we??)

Anyway, for us what works best is a dose of Benadryl (given when the gate agent announces that boarding will begin in 'a few moments' and Ear Planes for take off and landing.

We are big fans of those red chewy Swedish Fish rather than gum.

Good Luck
 
I highly recommend the Earplanes!!! The last time I flew, I had a sinus infection, and my ears plugged up so bad on descent that I thought my ear drum was going to rupture!!! I couldnt hear out of that ear for a good 24 hours. So, on the trip home, I used earplanes, as chewing gum doesnt help me, and they worked great.
 
Originally posted by PizzieDuster
Sandie.... I never would have EVER thought of this.....! EAR PLANE PLUGS..... crazy is that I always carry plugs for ME to snooze..... never thought of my younger children.... thank you so much!

I might be reading this wrong, but I just want to make sure that you know that EarPlane ear plugs are NOT like the normal sleeping plugs. If you use normal sleeping plugs, your ears will hurt even worse than before!!!

Hope this helps
Katdb
 
The earplanes are a Godsend.
Another method that works in a pinch.

I always have ziplocks with me. In a large ziplock, ask the stewardess to put some hot water over a washcloth or several paper towels. Just enough to soak it. Seal up the bag after pushing out most of the air. Now you have a warm compress.

Do this ahead of time (10 mins or so) before you land/take off. The compress will cool, but you can wrap it in another towel. Put this on the ear and the warm compress soothes and relaxes.

A lot of trouble...I know. BUT, when I forgot the earplanes and my daughter started complaining this saved the day!

LisaCA
 
all 3 of my children were asking for their earplanes on our recent trip to England. You can get them at Eckerd (or anything comperable...I think last time I got them at Wal Mart) You put them in before take off, and as you begin descending, and they equalize the pressure in your ears. They come in both adult and children's sizes.
 
I SO feel your pain on this issue! All 3 of my kids suffer terribly with ear pain upon the start of the descent! They start freaking out the minute the pressure changes even slightly and it is miserable until we get down and they open the cabin door! We've tried EVERYTHING and nothing has worked for our kids yet! We've done gum, starburst, drinking, sucking, chewing, swallowing, ibuprofen, benadryl, ear planes and nothing has helped.

My pediatrican along with someone on another board have recommended the ear numbing drops that you can give your kids for ear pain when they have ear infections. They said to put it in the second I feel the pressure change on descent and that it should work to keep their ears numb enough not to feel it. I'm am SO hoping this will work because NONE of the other methods have helped.

We had a flight attendant once tell us while I was getting ready to freak out because of the descent that the pilot we had was really good at moving the "switch" slowly to help the ears adjust and it was the ONLY time my 10 yr old dd didnt freak out and sob on descent.

Good luck! I am facing this in 4 1/2 weeks with all 3 of my kids and I can guarantee you I am dreading every second of it (well that and the lifeboat drill but that's in another post).

Heidi
 
I am a flight attendant. My husband and DS 8 both have to take some sort of decongestant everytime they fly even if they don't have a cold. Usually they take Sudafed. When my boys were little I'd give them Pediacare. Afrin works quickly and great. Therefore, when we fly I always have Afrin with me even though they have both taken Sudafed.
Hope this helps!
 
Mommies,

I feel terrible for any child in that much pain when flying. I know, the pain I get in my ears is an excruciating drilling pain, even painful the next day in the jaw. I hope you will consider the 'Ear Planes' brand (not sleeping plugs) for your children as I have found them to be a Godsend thru out many a mile. Children or adult sizes run appx. $5-6 pr at any drug store.

I also do the spray decongestant/antihistamine as is was recommended by my pharmacist who uses it for ear pressure pain when diving.

Happy flying! :wizard:
~ Sandie
 
I also give my kids Benadryl. I give it to them right before getting on the plane and about 1/2 hour into the flight they sleep like babies. My pediatrician recommended it and it works like a charm. I give the recommended dose so it does put them to sleep. Good Luck.
 
My son had the same problem on landings, extreme pain. A flight attendant told us about "Ear Plane" ear plugs and they work great for him. We find them at the pharmacy here. At our Target store they are behind the counter, at Cub you can get them off the shelf.

Good luck:D
 

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