Any other ladies drive instead of their SOs?

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My BF doesn't drive and I do. I have absolutely no problem with this for now, but I've told him I don't want to be driving him around forever.

Any other female dis'ers drive but not their SOs?
 
My husband drivers a truck for a living. So when the family goes somewhere, I almost always drive.
 
I prefer the way I drive to the way DH drives, so most often I do the driving. Although he is better with directions when we are in an unfamiliar area, so then he drives.

In my opinion, DH drives too slow and hugs the shoulder a little too much. Me - I'm perfect ;)
 
I hate driving so my husband drives. But he wishes I would drive because I am the most annoying backseat driver! He's lived in this city for 9 years now and still has no idea which way is North South East or West... drives me nuts!
 

My sister's husband does not drive, he has never had a license. I wanted her to come and visit me but she couldn't because her husband had no way to get to work. I don't know how she does it, it would drive me crazy. I drove her to the hospital when she had her son, my other sister drove her when she had her daughter. She gets up drives him to work, he starts at 6 am, then she goes home and gets ready and goes to work at 9 am. He can never run to the store and pick up a few things, or drop the kids off to their friends, you get the idea.
 
marybet said:
My sister's husband does not drive, he has never had a license. I wanted her to come and visit me but she couldn't because her husband had no way to get to work. I don't know how she does it, it would drive me crazy. I drove her to the hospital when she had her son, my other sister drove her when she had her daughter. She gets up drives him to work, he starts at 6 am, then she goes home and gets ready and goes to work at 9 am. He can never run to the store and pick up a few things, or drop the kids off to their friends, you get the idea.
This is my worry. BF didn't learn to drive because he couldn't afford to. And I can't argue with that. But as soon as he CAN I'm going to get very impatient if he still won't learn.
 
My husband is a terrible driver. :earseek: When we go places together I do the driving. I love to drive though, plus the driver controls the radio. :banana:
 
It depends really - we tend to just naturally take turns..but don't really think about it.
Although - if we are going somewhere we have not been to before or to a large city with a lot of traffic, I will drive and dh navigates with the map. I hate maps and he hates traffic - so it works for us! :teeth:
 
DH is a police officer and a horrific backseat driver. I would much rather just have him drive than have to listen to his instructions. :listen:
 
My DBF has knee problems so he can't drive anymore. But I have to admit I hate having to drive all the time!
 
Growing up, my mother never drove. There were no physical reasons why she couldnt, she just chose never to learn. I heard she had a few lessons from my uncle, but never cared to get her license. Anyways, growing my dad had to drive her everywhere, to the store(she could never go by herself)to to drs appts, to the beautyshop etc.. When my brothers were old enough, they had to chauffer my mother around, when I became old enough it became my responsibility. My mother is 71 and still doesnt drive, and my dad still takes her everywhere. My dad worked 6 days a week, and on his day off he spent driving my mother all around town because my mother couldnt do errands with out him. I NEVER understood this. She was never in a bad accident, didnt have any physcial problems. I dont understand how you can depend on people for EVERYTHING in your life. I mean if there were a physical problem I could certainly understand it and would be sympathetic.
Because she didnt drive I wasnt allowed to do anything afterschool, there was no ballet or art class, or ice skating lessons etc..there was no trying out for the sports team at school, WHY because I had nobody to take me to these things. If I couldnt walk, or take a bus, I couldnt go.
To this day, I still resent my mother for this.(she doesnt know of course).My dad always offered to buy her a car if she got her license, but she never did. I just dont get it.
 
DW doesn't like my driving, but that's ok--I don't like to drive. I consider it prep for when I win the lottery and have a driver :)
 
Dh and I fight over who has to drive. Neither one of us want to, lol. But then that's probably because we are both terrible backseat drivers, lol.
 
The Dh is a terrible driver. So when we go somewhere together, I always drive. He is never allowed to drive my vehicles.
 
Jackie0824 said:
Growing up, my mother never drove. There were no physical reasons why she couldnt, she just chose never to learn. I heard she had a few lessons from my uncle, but never cared to get her license. Anyways, growing my dad had to drive her everywhere, to the store(she could never go by herself)to to drs appts, to the beautyshop etc.. When my brothers were old enough, they had to chauffer my mother around, when I became old enough it became my responsibility. My mother is 71 and still doesnt drive, and my dad still takes her everywhere. My dad worked 6 days a week, and on his day off he spent driving my mother all around town because my mother couldnt do errands with out him. I NEVER understood this. She was never in a bad accident, didnt have any physcial problems. I dont understand how you can depend on people for EVERYTHING in your life. I mean if there were a physical problem I could certainly understand it and would be sympathetic.
Because she didnt drive I wasnt allowed to do anything afterschool, there was no ballet or art class, or ice skating lessons etc..there was no trying out for the sports team at school, WHY because I had nobody to take me to these things. If I couldnt walk, or take a bus, I couldnt go.
To this day, I still resent my mother for this.(she doesnt know of course).My dad always offered to buy her a car if she got her license, but she never did. I just dont get it.

How frustrating! Do you think that was her way of controlling everyone? Or could it be passive aggressiveness?

My grandmother on my dad's side never got her license either, but it was because my GF never let her. I'm not sure how she handled it when they were younger because he went away to WWII -- what on earth did she do? She's not around to ask now, though. When he was home, it wasn't a problem because he never had a traditional job away from the home. He'd always taken on different types of jobs, like hauling water, county constable, dog catcher, things like that. It worked really well for them.
 
For us, it depends on how I'm feeling. When I'm not well, he does all the driving, but when I'm feeling well and have a lot of energy, I like to drive. I've always loved driving!

He doesn't like my Tucson, so he'd rather not drive it.
 
When we were first married, DH did most of the driving. As time went on, he refused to believe that he needed glasses and it was scary driving with him so I started doing all the driving.

By the time he got glasses, I was so accustomed to doing all the driving that I still do whenever we go somewhere together. The kids also say I'm the better driver! :teeth:
 


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