I like the shoes you bought!
Your grandmother is too cute being worried about a blusher.
Are those pink shoes (from your board) suppose to go with the green dress? It seems as though you have different shades of colors, instead of sticking with the same family (such as jewel tones or bright tones). The blue flowers seem pastel, the green dress an earth shade, and the pink is so vibrant. Then you mentioned a gray or navy suit??? The colors all look nice separate, but I'm not sure about together. Of course, you can ignore my suggestions, but I want you to have a fabulous wedding!
Can't wait to see your veil; I saw the one you posted an it was beautiful!