A friend has asked me to ask a question for her. She is getting ready to make reservations for her, her husband and two children. One of the children is 17 BUT will be 18 when they are in Disney. She really doesn't want to pay the extra adult cost (to her he is still just a kid). Do they ask for proof on how old your children are? My question is I am planning to go with four children so I need two rooms. Since one of my children will be 20 at the time, will I be charged for the extra adult since I am getting two rooms? My next question is I have read on these boards they do not promise connecting rooms unless you are with children. Will they consider that because my daughter is 20 I cannot be promised connecting rooms. Without keeping my family "connected" will be a major disappointment!!!! Thanks for listening and answering.