After 25 years of marriage

[Michie]

Need some advice.

The Dh announces to me, out of the blue, with no warning..

So worried about the kids

That he is ready for a change.

He wants to switch spots at the dining room table

Should I oblige?

Should we just switch spots, or switch chairs as well?

 

[Lisa loves Pooh]

Ask him if you can just rotate the table.

 

[Blondy876]

I wouldn't do it. What would be next? Different sides of the bed?!?!?! No, no, no. He'll just have to stay put!

 

[MeanLaureen]

Be sure to get a good lawyer! You want to make sure you get to keep your chair!

 

[fanofdisney]

My dh switched me bed sides a few years ago, I had just adjusted, and then he wants to switch back! I said no! Stood my ground!

Advice for you: maybe the kids could switch places.

 

[Tiggerlover91]

Need some advice.

The Dh announces to me, out of the blue, with no warning..

So worried about the kids

That he is ready for a change.

He wants to switch spots at the dining room table

Should I oblige?

Should we just switch spots, or switch chairs as well?

 

[Michie]

Ask him if you can just rotate the table.

That is an idea! My spot is by an a/c vent, and I dont want to give that up!

 

[sweet angel]

Oh Michie, I'm so sorry your going through such turmoil. Which seat has the better view?

 

[RitaZ.]

Are you sure it wasn't the tube socks?

 

[Buckalew11]

You must have the better view of the TV.

I bet it is March Madness.

I wouldn't do it. I'd be afraid the bed would be next.

 

[Michie]

Oh Michie, I'm so sorry your going through such turmoil. Which seat has the better view?

Mine does. Plus if we switch, it means I will be closest to get refills of drinks, etc.

 

[RitaZ.]

Ok, admit it... who else "lets" their DH have the side of the bed that's closer to the door? Ok, we switched sides some time ago, now I'm closer to the door, but that was always my thinking. If a psycho breaks into the house, they will get to DH first.

 

[Blondy876]

Ok, admit it... who else "lets" their DH have the side of the bed that's closer to the door? Ok, we switched sides some time ago, now I'm closer to the door, but that was always my thinking. If a psycho breaks into the house, they will get to DH first.

Me, me, me!!!

 

[sajetto]

Nope, nu uh, no way, no how...its the same principle as which side of the bed to sleep on or who drives...totally non-negotiable I think its time for you to get a good lawyer.

 

[Buckalew11]

Ok, admit it... who else "lets" their DH have the side of the bed that's closer to the door? Ok, we switched sides some time ago, now I'm closer to the door, but that was always my thinking. If a psycho breaks into the house, they will get to DH first.

I'm not giving that info up. Just in case there is a DISpsycho out there!

 

[clh2]

Mine does. Plus if we switch, it means I will be closest to get refills of drinks, etc.

That explains everything!

 

[RitaZ.]

I'm not giving that info up. Just in case there is a DISpsycho out there!

 

[sweet angel]

Mine does. Plus if we switch, it means I will be closest to get refills of drinks, etc.

Can you maybe just rotate one seat to the left?

 

[poohandwendy]

LOL, my DH sleeps closest to the door...the psycho killer will definitely get him first, leaving me time to escape. (I mean, I would definitely call 911 for him when I got to a safe location and perhaps a warm cup of tea with a shot of whiskey to calm my nerves)

Michie, definitely get an atty on retainer, sounds like your relationship is definitely unstable.

 

[Briarmom]

I don't know what to say. Just P&PD.