Advice anyone?

[PrincessKally]

Advice please!!

So I have a group of friends that are my best friends. now alot are dating eachother and I'm one of the few single single people. But nowadays I am not even getting invited to hang out anymore. Granted all we do is sit around at people's houses, cuz only like 3 of us can drive [not me yet] and sure I easily get bored when everyone else is making out on the couches and half the time don't wanna be there. But I do love my best friends. But like tonight is my last night to anything at all during break b/c i leave saturday morning [come back the day before school goes back] and I am busy tomorrow night and noone even calls or says hey were going over to so and so's house. So instead I see their aways with where they are etc.
Lately if i wanna hang out I hafta call someone and ask what are they doing, then i get invited. it's so gay qand bugs me so much lately....Granted even if i don't wanna go a call would be nice, correct? Idk something that jsut has been bugging me....sorry, kinda ranting here.

EDIT: i guess what i'm asking does anyone know what I should do, or has been in this situation before??

 

[PrincessKally]

bumpp anyone?

 

[PatriotsRule]

I've kind of been in that situation before. Have you tried hinting around that you feel left out?

 

[PrincessKally]

kind of....I had a I i was sick of all the makeout hangouts and stuff and it bugs me and stuff, not really about not being invited, i guess i should probably say something to them, i just don't know the right thing to say,.

 

[meeshheartsdisney217]

talk to them about it.

they can't know what's bothering them unless you tell them.

 

[dopeygirl156]

I agree you have to talk to them, there not going to know how you feel unless you tell them.

 

[Vannah]

I agree you have to talk to them, there not going to know how you feel unless you tell them.

True. Just try to confront them about it, nicely.

But maybe they're sending you these signals for a reason. Like, they're ready for new friends. This year has been one of the hardest years with friendship for me. All my friends decided to dump me and when I tried to talk to them, I got dropped like a hot potato. So yes, I know what you're going through. If talking to them doesn't work, try to find a new group of friends. Yeah. Maybe that's not hard for you, but it's really difficult for me because I'm shy. However, I managed to do it. Now I eat lunch and hang out with totally different people.

You probably didn't want to hear my story, but it tied in with what I was telling you.

 

[PrincessKally]

Thanks everyone, I actually got invited to the hangout at someone's hosue tonight, can't go I needa pack. I'll definatly confront them when I get back. Like IDK if there necessarily dumping me as a friend b/cthey don't act like it otherwise, and I mean I've been friends with the majority of the group since beginning of freshmen year, and you know everyone has there group. I will definately say something though thanks everyone!

 

[meeshheartsdisney217]

True. Just try to confront them about it, nicely.

But maybe they're sending you these signals for a reason. Like, they're ready for new friends. This year has been one of the hardest years with friendship for me. All my friends decided to dump me and when I tried to talk to them, I got dropped like a hot potato. So yes, I know what you're going through. If talking to them doesn't work, try to find a new group of friends. Yeah. Maybe that's not hard for you, but it's really difficult for me because I'm shy. However, I managed to do it. Now I eat lunch and hang out with totally different people.

You probably didn't want to hear my story, but it tied in with what I was telling you.

um wow, savannah.

are you my twin!?