A question about Indian culture - from India, not native Americans.

[Big Cuddly Bear]

Can you tell me, do Indians have an exceptionally strong desire to feed people as part of their culture, or do I just know a really nice Indian guy?

I am doing some work for this Indian guy who just opened a restaurant about 10 days ago. I have been in his restaurant a few times since then, and will be 2 more times before the end of the year.

Every time I go in he wants to feed me. He even brings out food on plates. Rather than offend him. I just tell him I just ate, but if he wants to box it up, I will happily take it home and eat it...

He knows I like Indian food.

So, is he just exceptionally nice, or is it part of the Indian culture?

 

[Sarah_Rose]

In my experience... Indians seem to pride themselves in being good hosts. And yes, this includes stuffing you full of food.

My best friend is Indian and her family always prepares a feast whenever I go over to her house. When we were in college, my best friend's mom would send ME care packages full of food. We did a road trip once and were going to spend the night with a distant relative of my friend's family. We hit bad weather and didn't arrive until 10:00 at night... to a full multi-course meal. I was a bridesmaid in her wedding several years ago and the entire 10 day affair involved tons of food and alcohol. I must have gained 10 lbs that week!

My DH also works with many Indians. Everytime we go over to one of their houses for a get-together, we make sure not to eat beforehand, because we know we'll leave stuffed!

It's one of the many things I love about Indian culture... they sure know how to treat guests! I've learned many lessons in being a good host from my BFF's family.

 

[funkychunkymonkey]

I work with a lady who is orginally from India. She loves to feed me too. She knows I live alone so shes constantly bringing me food or inviting me over for dinner.

 

[suzanna1066@comcast.]

Food is a huge part of Indian culture and hospitality. Also, they will not take no for an answer unless you say it 3-4 times.

 

[bicker]

Many cultures define "hospitality" as the offering of food and drink (and if appropriate) a place to rest. The other aspects that people place on "hospitality" are mostly a modern, Western perturbation, often driven by commercial interests.