October 18th
This is the first full day with my brother, SIL and nephew. This is where the planning might leave my hands a little. Last year SIL was set on the parks they wanted to go to based on their schedules, and we ended up running into some crowds because she wanted to do EMH's (and we hate them...this trip we can't since we'll be offsite) I'm hoping that I can persuade her to follow touring plans and easywdw with me instead of just guessing.
So for now, I'm going with what I would plan if she wasn't with us, and if she wants to change later, we will. My plans for today would be a second day at DHS. Nephew is a Toy Story maniac and loves the Muppets, Brother is a Star Wars nerd and SIL loves Beauty and the Beast. If this is the one day we are all together for the entire day like last year, this is the park to be at.
Plus, I can send DD on RNR with my brother
The only thing that will change this plan at all is if everyone decides to do a family
MNSSHP again. This would be the only night we could do it. We had such a good time last year I can't imagine anyone not wanting to do, however, last year we paid for everyone as their Christmas presents, but I don't know that we will do so this year. They may not want to go once they realize the price

If we do go to MNSSHP this night, we'll probably do a couple of hours at MK in the morning, and then swim/rest after lunch. For now, we're going to pretend there's no MNSSHP for us this night, and we're heading to DHS for the day.
For my nephew
For my SIL
For my brother (it was closed for refurb last trip I think)
I'm going to guess this for DS
and of course for DD
For my mom
For me
And for all of us
So, DHS poses another problem for food. I know my nephew and son will want their old standby for lunch
For dinner. Last trip brother's family had the QS dining plan, we had regular. That spoiled my mom on table service dinners

It worked out well as we'd spend all day with brother's family, but then go our separate ways for dinner and the rest of the evening they could spend together alone and we could do our thing. I've budgeted a table service each night. Really, there are only 2 options for us if we stay in the park.
50's Prime Time. Their menu might be a little better for me
but the kids love Sci Fi
My other idea is to see if brother and family would want to leave the park and head to DTD to go to TRex Cafe with us. We haven't been since 2008 and DS is a huge dinosaur fan. (plus we have 99 cent kids meal things!)