a lil confused.

[Mickey_Mouse_Fanatic]

ok well my ex was talking to me last night on AIM which was a lil awkward at first, &were completely over each other &i have a new bf &he has a new gf but he told me even tho hes over me theres always going to be a part of him deep down that still loves me. &he said i was his first love &that theres something about me that hes going to miss &never forget. i thought it was sweet &all but he had cheated on me &hurt me rlly bad emtionally. im still friends w.him but idk if hes telling the truth or not. does it sounds like hes being sincere? &also theres this song that he thinks about me when he listens &it started playing when he was talking to me &apparently started to cry a lil bit. idk whether to believe him or not .. help?

 

[JulielovesDisney]

IDK..it's hard to say.

A first love is truly, never forgotten, and part of you will always love your first love. That's normal and natural. So that part he could be telling the truth.

But just because he said that doesn't mean you should fall for him again. It doesn't mean he wants to get back together with you.

So I guess just take it for what it is, but don't really listen to it...ya know?

 

[Mickey_Mouse_Fanatic]

ya &of course he was my first love too but i wudnt want to ever go bak out w.him. mainly cuz hes hurt me too much &i have new more loving boyfriend.

 

[IWasBornToLoveDisney]

see it looks like you've got it figured out... if you could say that about him and ur new bf just take it at face value and don't worry about it... you wouldn't want him to hurt his new girl like he did you

 

[cindys_castle2011]

ok well my ex was talking to me last night on AIM which was a lil awkward at first, &were completely over each other &i have a new bf &he has a new gf but he told me even tho hes over me theres always going to be a part of him deep down that still loves me. &he said i was his first love &that theres something about me that hes going to miss &never forget. i thought it was sweet &all but he had cheated on me &hurt me rlly bad emtionally. im still friends w.him but idk if hes telling the truth or not. does it sounds like hes being sincere? &also theres this song that he thinks about me when he listens &it started playing when he was talking to me &apparently started to cry a lil bit. idk whether to believe him or not .. help?

I've gone through the EXACT same thing last summer.

I dated this guy for a few months and thought he was just the most perfect person in the world.

Then i got a text from him saying "Kelsi, I'm sorry. I don't want you, I want *Sue"

Of coarse I was upset and cried. I was heartbroken. A few weeks later, he tried to talk to me, and 'get back together' by telling me all the things I wanted to hear.

But when I found out he cheated on me with that girl, I felt soooo much better. I realized I didn't need someone like him.

When I was going through all of that, I leaned on my best guy friend. He was ALWAYS there for me to make me laugh and smile. Even though we had just gotten close earlier that summer.

Well I finally realized who would be best for me.. that guy friend.

We started dating in October, and we're still together. I couldn't be happier. I realize that what I thought was love last summer, wasn't even barely 'puppy love'.

Trust me, do not go through what I went through. He still tries to talk to me all the time. But hold on to your current boyfriend. If your ex is anything like my ex. You don't need him, no girl needs a guy that would cheat on her and treat her any less that what a princess should be treated like.

 

[Mickey_Mouse_Fanatic]

ya &like he isnt trying to bak together cuz he was like 'i screwed up &ik well never get bak together &jonah(my current bf)is a rlly lucky guy &i missed out.' like he can be sweet but ik that i dont feel the way i used to feel about him.

 

[life of the party]

dont believe it for a second , a cheater is a cheater .
he's bull****ting you , telling you what you wanna hear & saying the nicest sweetest things so he still has you hanging onto him .

just forget him , and focus on your current relationship .

 

[Mickey_Mouse_Fanatic]

ya. im just gona focus on my bf, jonah. i really love him.<3

 

[MickeyisBeast]

I dont think you should worry about him, focus on your present, not your past. Live in the present, not the past.

 

[jbcheerchick93]

well you can never truly know whether or not he's lying. my first love, angelo, and i are still close friends and when we say goodbye or goodnight we always say i love you. because we do still love eachother, its just in a different way than it was before. there are things that i'll never forget about him, and he did hurt me a lot. but now i understand how our relationship is and it works for us. its hard to trust him im sure, but you just have to give it time. you wont start to trust him unless you let him back into your life and keep talking to him. its all based on what you want. if you want him to be your friend then try, if you dont, then dont worry about it.

 

[Babyjustrun]

well you can never truly know whether or not he's lying. my first love, angelo, and i are still close friends and when we say goodbye or goodnight we always say i love you. because we do still love eachother, its just in a different way than it was before. there are things that i'll never forget about him, and he did hurt me a lot. but now i understand how our relationship is and it works for us. its hard to trust him im sure, but you just have to give it time. you wont start to trust him unless you let him back into your life and keep talking to him. its all based on what you want. if you want him to be your friend then try, if you dont, then dont worry about it.

Same with me and my ex.
We're always telling each other 'I love you', usually through text. We do love each other, more in a friend or a brother/sister way, but love nonetheless.
I usually say it before I go to bed.

 

[Mickey_Mouse_Fanatic]

Same with me and my ex.
We're always telling each other 'I love you', usually through text. We do love each other, more in a friend or a brother/sister way, but love nonetheless.
I usually say it before I go to bed.

well you can never truly know whether or not he's lying. my first love, angelo, and i are still close friends and when we say goodbye or goodnight we always say i love you. because we do still love eachother, its just in a different way than it was before. there are things that i'll never forget about him, and he did hurt me a lot. but now i understand how our relationship is and it works for us. its hard to trust him im sure, but you just have to give it time. you wont start to trust him unless you let him back into your life and keep talking to him. its all based on what you want. if you want him to be your friend then try, if you dont, then dont worry about it.

we don't rlly say 'i love you' cuz of we both have someone new. but like we both still deep down always gona love each other. he wants to be rlly close friends &so do i. we've been talking more &im rlly good friends w.his gf so we're still pretty close.