sherilaine
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Lots of great points have been made already. I just wanted to add my own observations about human nature, based on my experience and how personal bias figured into my reactions.
I have only been to WDW once. My family and I went and had a great time. My kids loved everything but Magic Kingdom, and we all had the same negative reaction there. It wasn't because it lacked anything, wasn't as clean, CMs weren't as friendly, rides weren't as good, etc etc. It boiled down to the fact that we had a personal bias to prefer our home park. I think this is a human nature thing and why we often feel compelled to enter into a competetive mode without even realizing it. When it finally dawned on me what I was doing, it was already the end of my trip and I've not been back to try and erase that mental bias from my thinking. I'm not sure it's completely possible, but if/when I go back, I going to try not to play the compare game because I already know who would win.
My other comment is that where CMs are concerned, or anyone in the service industry for that matter, their treatment of you will often mirror what they receive. If you are happy, smiling, outgoing, and friendly, that is almost invariably what you will get from a CM. Not always, particularly when CMs are feeling the stress of large crowds, multiple closures, and things of that nature, but I have made it a point to be friendly and happy with CMs and they almost always respond in kind. I guess it's good to be aware of the vibe you are sending out.
This is the best post I have read in this thread so far! It's 100% true. We are all guilty of bias - when it comes to people, places or things!
Also, I have found the CM issue as well - they are often a mirror and how some of them put up with some of what they are handed I have no idea. My 13 year old DD even recognized this last trip during the fireworks when people were all on the street watching and they had to try to organize people through cross walks - someone gave one of the CMs a hard time and my DD just looked at me and said "I love Disney but I'd never want to do that job - people are so unfair and this is supposed to be a happy place!"