My DD is 8 and its hard to find things for her too. She likes Monster High Dolls, Littlest Pet Shops, and thats about it!!! When asked what she wants for christmas, she just says "whatever".....UGH! She did ask for an American Girl Doll, but she has NEVER played with dolls and i am hesitant about paying that much for a doll she may or may not play with. She LOVES electronics and stuff, so she may get some DS games, She has a desktop computer, so no lap top for her, I pod Touch may be something to get her. DH wanted to get her a Pink Flat Screen TV for her bedroom, but im just not sure if she'd like getting that under the tree....I really dont like this age!!!
My DD8 have never played with dolls either but she asked for an AG doll (Kinani) for her birthday this past July and we did get it for her. She LOVES her and plays with her a lot. I was shocked. She hasn't asked for another doll this year, but wants Santa to bring her soome of Kinani's accessories.