I see this all the time...........unforntunatley
Your spouses income is your business.........not thier's
They are from a time when women worked in the home. They still do.........hardest job there is !!!!
Your choice to provide income to your family is that exactly........Your Choice !!!
If they cant live without you........ let them know to back off..........
Respect and gratitude only works when it is mutual !!!!
And besides........... they musta seen your feet by now.......... Tell them they are gonna be walkin unless they behave !!!!
Mark