Not to be a downer but I received a sad letter in the mail.
Those who were around last summer remember my friend that shot her whole family and then killed herself. I got a letter from her Mother today. She said she could not bring herself to sending out Christmas cards due to the circumstances. She said that Andrea had just started taking Zoloft and they think she just had a bad reaction. (I'd say!)
Her mother also said in this whole time Michael's (Andrea's DH) family had never said one word to them. Now I understand the anger at her daughter from the husbands family but Andrea and Michael had been together for 25 years and married 20. If her closest friends did not relaize anything was wrong, I would think her own in-laws would know there had to have been something that was seriously wrong w/ Andrea.
I am sure it is too much for his family to get over but I cannot imagine what they have to benefit from not understanding they all are victims. This has aged her so much it is very sad.
I just wish there was some way I could comfort her Mom.