
I love that

Can I be a Raywatch girl too
OMG, I've got the same deal going with my MiL

She knows she can get away with a lot because, in her words no less, I'm too polite to say anything
I really want to be close because we love the same people, but every time I let my guard down she says something to remind me that I'm not really a member of her family
My folks go to extremes sometimes to make sure that my DH feels part of the family. Sometimes I want to tell them not to bother cause my DH doesn't appreciate it, but I want my kids to see how it should be

My folks were a bit annoyed at the way I was treated by his parents. If they knew it all they would be furious. They are still very protective of their kids (even though most of us are middle-aged now

) Anyway, your comments struck a chord with me. Glad to know I'm not alone with the MiL issues