3 Weeks Later And I`m Doing Just Fine.

[DisneyAli]

Hi all and once again thanks for your support.

As it says it is now 3 weeks later and i am feeling GREAT!!!!!

I have stopped the medication although have to see doctor on semi regular basis, been back to work just over a week, and received a lot of support from them including top management, we have a very good team spirit within our store, and support from friends and family.

I have had a lot of time to think things over and realising the extent of his deceit, lies ect, i know i will be better off without him in the long run, although it does still hurt like crazy.

I am feeling a lot more positive in myself and the very uncertain future ahead. He "informed" me on Saturday that although he is still moving out his stuff, re previous posting, bits and pieces still going out most days when home from sea, his "official" leaving day is 1st March....the front of the man. My reply you moved out the night you dropped the bombshell on me.

Still negotiating to stay in the house for now, will have to see how long he keeps his word on paying the mortgage. But at the end of the day i have got myself a good lawyer and am prepared to fight him all the way.

When he phones or calls round i have found him to be very short tempered which is not him at all, and have told him to keep a civil tongue when talking to me or not to bother at all.

Well he is due home from sea again tomorrow so will wait to see what the next week has instore........but with each passing day it is getting easier and although 3 weeks ago i wouldnt have even thought of saying this.......SHE IS WELCOME TO HIM!!!!!

Thanks all for everything. alison.

 

[Hilary]

Glad to hear you're feeling more positive

 

[jana]

I glad to here things are getting a bit easier to deal with.

 

[WDWfan uk]

You are sounding stronger and more positive Alison - good for you ..... and keep it up! If you have less positive days, remember how you are feeling now and that the despair will pass.

 

[Minniespal]

Alison ~ So nice to hear from you. I was thinking about you the other day and hoping that you were doing well.

It is great that you are feeling so positive at the moment ~ I hope that this can continue for you and that the bad days are very few and far between.

Take care.

 

[T16GEM]

glad to hear that you are doing well, keep your chin up - you will be fine!

Gems

 

[squitty]

I'm so pleased to read your post.... Good on you Alison

 

[UKDEB]

Wow, Alison - is this really the same person?! You sound really upbeat - well done, you.

Keep surrounding yourself with supportive people (including your friends here, of course ), and keep up the positive thinking - you're an example to us all.

 

[edie w]

Just logged on to see if there was any word from you - and there you were!

Glad you are feeling on top of things. Save your message somewhere so when you have a day, you can look at it to remind yourself of how strong and positive you really are.

 

[KayleeUK]

Well done you You are doing brilliantly.

 

[BONZO]

Hi Alison,

Keep going with those positive thoughts!

I hope that next week works out for you.


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[Disney owl]

So happy to read your post & find that you're feeling much better.

All the best for the future

Take care

 

[Madjock]

although 3 weeks ago i wouldnt have even thought of saying this.......SHE IS WELCOME TO HIM!!!!! [/B]

EXACTLY!!! just keep reminding yourself of this because you deserve better.

Its good to hear you sound so positive.

Annmarie

 

[Peebee]

It's so wonderful to hear you are in such a positive frame of mind Alison - you've shown a lot of strength during this very difficult time, and you should be proud of yourself.

Paul

 

[Olaf]

Good for you Girl. You're going to be OK.

 

[kazzie]

Alison,

Great news to hear from you,you sound so much more positive

Keep on 'truckin!

 

[onlyholly]

Good to hear things are looking a little brighter. Carry on with the positive attitude and things will get even better.

All the best
Holly

 

[Beth__WDW23/6/02]

Aw i am glad you are feeling much positive.
I'm also glad everything is fine, and you are ok.

I agree with what everyone has said keep positive, and you are right "She is welcome to him" you deserve so much more! keep telling yourself this!!!