rasadkowski
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I completely understand!! My husband has expressed no interest at all in the planning. If anything he wishes I didn't have to spend so much time checking for open adrsMy ds15 saw our plans last night on my computer and was NOT happy at first glance.Too much Epcot, he says, not enough MK, DHS, AK. He's also disappointed I'm planning a down day/Disney Springs day on our party day. <Sigh> He definitely doesn't have to be with us all the time and is more than welcome to go to a different park on one of our Epcot days. I didn't have enough time last night (it was late) to sit down and really show him that, even though we have park days planned, it doesn't mean there isn't flexibility to go somewhere else if desired. I think he's just worried we won't have enough time to get everything done (he's right, we won't) and he thinks if we took some Epcot time and made it MK time we'd be better off. I think MK is a great park, but it's full of "one-and-done" rides, imo. Carousel of Progress, Tiki Room, Mickey's Philharmagic, Jingle Cruise, PoTC, People mover, Monster's Inc. Laugh Floor, Speedway, etc... are all in that category for our family. If we split that list into 3 different days and then hit Space Mountain, 7dmt, and BTMRR one time each of those 3 days, I think we'll all be pretty happy. I just need to talk to him again and tell him that.
Seriously though, when he walked by my computer last night and saw my spreadsheet and reacted like that at first, I felt like a rapidly-deflating balloon. In the end, I'm just happy someone is finally expressing an INTEREST in what I'm working on day and night!



BUT, yesterday I was telling him about how I was concerned about our early mornings and the timing of our dinners. When I told him we had a free day, he immediately asked why we weren't adding another park day. Huh?! where did that come from!? He said we'd likely be going back to the hotel earlier than we think on most days so the girls can relax before dinner, so we should have the extra day to do what we don't end up getting to on those days we head out early. I was at first thrilled that he actually wanted to do more! But then I immediately had this feeling of anxiety about more planning (fp for that day, where would we go, would I need more adrs?!!) so...still planning..and really really hoping for that last adr

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