I have not been to beaches & cream but I would not pick it for a date night either. Not a fancy vs. not fancy but i think it is small and crowded and lots of OPKs (other people's kids). It is unavoidable at disney but seems like kind of close quarters. Honestly if you want that kind of food I would probably walk over to the boardwalk and get similar food on the boardwalk (you are not on
DDP?) and ice cream at the new place that is opening up, Ample Hills Creamery. The ice cream seems like it is going to blow beaches and cream out of the water. I bought into BWV with my ex for a reason, it's nice and romantic and not so packed in and the weather should be lovely that time of year. They have shows going on, and it's just an overall wonderful vacation experience... definitely one of my "aaaah" moments there.