If you are working on a budget then al a carte is the way to go. If you want convenience & someone else to do all the work then go with a package. However, I must add that my sister is a
travel agent & tells me it's less expensive to do the work ourselves than go with a package.
You will get many opinions about staying on or off-site. I personally prefer on-site because you get the whole Disney experience.
With a party of 3 you will be able to stay at any resort. Now you need to decide if you want deluxe, moderate or value. As the previous poster said, you must check out mousesavers.com.
We always rent a car, however, if you stay on property you really don't need one, but you are forced to dine in their restaurants. Unless you drive & then you will already have a car.
My personal favorite place to stay is FW, but we have a family of 5 so we like the extra room. I have never slept at an All Star, but spent a few evenings there with relatives & found it to be pretty loud, although I thought the theming was fun.
With a toddler you may want to think about a monorail resort. You will probably find yourself spending a lot of time at the Magic Kingdom in Fantasyland or Mickey's Toontown Fair & being able to hop on the monorail & be back at your resort quickly is a real plus. All of the monorail resorts are deluxes & are very nice.
There is a lot to think about. I would get your budget on paper, decide what's most important & then research, research, research. You will get very valuable information from these boards.
Good luck & have fun planning - that's almost 1/2 the fun.
By the way - your toddler will not need a ticket for admission!!
