Absolutely NOT! We were married at the poly this past january, and it was only me, dh and my 16 year old daughter. We decided to go 1900 park faire after the wedding instead of having a 'reception' with the three of us. We had a blast. The evil stepmother and step sisters really played up the fact that we had gotten married, we got to get up and dance with cinderella and prince charming. It was so much fun!
We are heading back this weekend with two 16 year olds and 1900 is on our to do list!