Get him a birthday button at the parks, the cm will give him lots of extra attention. I guess the birthday meal would depend on what he likes. If he is a sports nut then espn club would be a good choice, if he wouldnt mind the characters chef mickeys at the contemporary has lots of action and excitement, whispering canyon at the wilderness lodge has a western theme, are you looking for food or entertainment, ohanas has coconut races and hula hoop plus all you can eat food, if you time it right you can see the fireworks etc. How about Boma at Animal Kingdom Lodge? The possibilities are endless. If you want something more adult oriented, maybe a choice from the world showcase at epcot, maybe mexico or the coral reef at the living seas etc. Good luck deciding.