eliza61
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jun 2, 2003
tiffjoy said:I only have DDs, so this doesn't apply much to me (although I guess it applies to my DH...) but I have never understood the big deal about this. The child isn't watching me go to the bathroom- I'm in a stall, private from anyone. I'm not sure what exactly is "uncomfortable" about this? Or especially how a nine year old boy with his mom can make a grown woman feel "unsafe in their space?"
I also know people have children with special needs, and you often can't tell just by looking. So I'm very careful about not judging.
1. It uncomfortable because when Iv turn the corner in a FEMALE bathroom I don't expect you find a male. That is why they have separate spaces to begin with
2. I've, never seen them go inside the stalls with their mommies, there always hanging outside the stall waiting. Yes that is creepy.
3. There are little girls in there also. Since they are in the restroom they are supposed to be in, they now have to see a boy in there. No I don't want to explain to a 4 or 5 yo neice why a boy (and a big boy at that) is in the girls bathroom.
Big difference between a 9 year old and a 5 year old. Of a9 year old cash function at school he can survive 4 minutes in the mens room with his mom guarding the entrance