I totally agree, but in this case, to be fair, she was an otherwise excellent and super-attentive server... I think she was just an over-sharer and we engaged a little too much with her, I don't think she was intentionally trying to scam us.
I have little things I call "Magic Killers" - kind of like the "4th wall" in movies and television... when I go to Disney, I don't want to think about the real world at all (including seeing the news or headlines). I know that's probably a completely selfish and irresponsible thing to do to some extent (especially since, 9 times out of 10, I do end up checking in with work at some point). I once complimented a cashier in one of the gift shops on her crystal Mickey earrings. She was super cheerful, but made a comment like, "Wish they were real diamonds... but they're not, not on what they pay me here!" Total Magic Killer!!!!