UPDATE - we did not get out
had a rental car booked and decided to see what happened since the drive would be so long and very stressful with 8 (4 kids) people in a van driving nonstop for 24 hrs.
SW started cancelling flights to BDL 9from places like florida) early Saturday morning before the first drop of snow fell anywhere. It's not very reliable when you have thousands of people missing flights when the weather is still fine based on what might happen. All said and done we had a few inches of snow (but people think all of MA and CT are "Boston" which is a few hours away and they had more snow.
I have learned to never book during vacation again, we could not get a flight out for over 4 days. That airlines book to close and too tight and they can't have it both ways, if you want to cancel on the threat of weather, than be prepared to accommodate the thousands you displace. I do not believe any of this was safety related, I think it was a cost saving measure - and by many airlines, not just southwest.
I have watched the flights over the past 2 weeks and they are a mess across the board the minute you throw the word snow out. This is new england, it snows, if you cant handle it, don't operate during the winter. We had more cancelled flights last weekend, yesterday and today based on a few inches of snow. I KNOW the flights come from other areas, but I have inquired about the flights origination points and routes and it truly appears they are being cancelled on the threat of bad weather and not conditions at other airports causing delays or cancellations. I also noticed our flight was cancelled several times (7am) a friend told me it doesnt make it out much, so I was warned
We were lucky, my husband was able to work the week through and change his vacation time, but not everyone can do this.
Tips that might help others
That said, we had planned to do universal at the back end of our trip. IF we ever book during a vacation again, we will put our extra days on the front end so if we have weather issues, we can absorb those days with driving and still make our "major" vacation.
Shop Insurance - AAA offers insurance at a fraction of the cost and I have asked friends who have used it and they were very pleased with any dealing they had with the co that they go through.
Lastly,
by Monday I was sick with the flu and by Tuesday my dd 9 had strep through. DH is sure we would have been sick on the cruise and killed each other! My fever was sky high and I had the house close to 80 was under a mtn of blankets and was still freezing. So Insurance is necessary for more than not making you vacation, but also good to have if you take ill on your vacation.
for those wondering about losing our $$$$ Carnival made us a very generous offer for a future cruise and I was THRILLED!!!! they owed us nothing and I personally know of others who also missed this crusie so I know they must have had a lot of vacant rooms and still gave me excellent customer service.
We are now booked out of Baltimore (driving down the day before (5 hr trip and not during vacation!) and have purchased insurance