It's easy ... contact your Travel Agent, tell them you would like to "request a server" on your upcoming cruise. If you booked your cruise with Disney Vacation Club (DVC) ... you will need to contact DVC. If you booked your cruise directly through Disney Cruise Line (DCL) ... you will need to contact DCL. HOWEVER, if you booked a cruise while onboard a ship, and referenced a Travel Agent on your reservation form, that means you "technically" booked through that Travel Agent. In this case, you will need to contact your Travel Agent. When you make your request, supply as much information as possible. If you only know the server's FIRST name, and their home country ... that SHOULD work. However, if you know their last name ... that will help even more! You ALSO have the ability to specify the size of the table at which you dine. If you are a party of 4, and would like to dine alone ... merely request a "tabletop" of 4. If you are a party of 2, and would like to dine with others, merely request a tabletop of 4, 6 or 8. Hope this help! Enjoy!