Some of you are getting my concerns, and some of you aren't. And that's okay. But just to clarify, *I* didn't say he was financially irresponsible, and I'm not saying those who don't eat leftovers are financially irresponsible. I was merely mentioning it because of something I read. And yes, I did google "people who don't eat leftovers" as a joke with my DD. That's the kind of relationship we have. In fact, she just texted me this morning with a joke about a frog because of a previous convo we had about frogs. If my DD is concerned about this guy, I am of course going to listen to her, and share my opinions. And for those who implied I was weird for googling it, well, sorry, I was just having some fun to share with my DD. For those who think I'm out of line for posting about it...you certainly are entitled to your opinion, but this IS a discussion board. And yes, when you add up everything about him and how he handles his financial life, it does concern her that he's the type who doesn't eat "leftovers" (which is wasteful, especially considering where he's at in life right now) because it seems like he's already not on the right path financially...and he's 22, not 17-18.