...specifically with regards to the DDP? We have 4 kids ages 2,4,9,11. Does the 2 y.o. just eat free everywhere - table, counter and snacks? That seems hard to believe and he's too big to just give him a bit of the other's meals to get him through. I don't mind spending the money to put him on the DDP if I should just to make sure he eats everywhere but not if its unnecessary. Since he eats like a 4 y.o. should I just put him on the DDP and if we get the occasional freebie consider it just that?