DP and I have decided to legally marry in New York. While we know we take a risk by waiting we have decided it is what we really want to do. So on May 26th, 2012 16 years and 1 day after we had our union ceremony we are going to get married. We met with the woman at the banquet facility today fully expecting for that date not to be available but it was. They have a little grassy area with a gazebo where we will have a small ceremony. Afterwards we'll move it inside for the party. DP is doing the planning. I just smile, nod, hand over the credit card and say okay. This stuff pretty much gives me agita. There are a lot of emotions for a lot of reasons. Thank you to all of you for a great place to come and share our news.