we are on a western Caribbean on the Fantasy in Jan. Very excited. DH and I requested shortie wet suits for Christmas, which DM kindly gave us. Here's the question. Exactly how tight are these thing supposed to be? I know they need to be skin tight, but should they be "girdle" tight? Do they loosen up as you wear them? Received the sizes that would be right if they were, say, shirts, but they seem awfully tight. Also, what do men wear under theirs. I can see how my women's bathing suit can go under mine. DH always wears a boxer type suit, never ever a speedo type and I just don't see how that would fit. I think he'd rather forgo the wet suit and freeze than wear a speedo. He has the body for it, but he's an American and, well, you know. American guys just generally don't wear them.