I'm sorry that your first anniversary wasn't like you were imagining but you still got to spend it together AND to look on the "bright" side it will be something you'll remember forever...at least! Maybe you need to flush out your sinuses. I use a neti-pot when I'm feeling particularly congested (that could be what is making your head hurt so bad) and even though my nose may not be stuffy it is amazing how much better I feel after doing it. You can get it at walgreens for around $10. Hope you feel better soon!!! BTW-Are you doing the MNSSHP???