Df and I are having a very simple wedding party.......my sister [who will be under 13] is the MOH and DF almost brother [age 17] will be the BM. Due to the ages of the attendents we are considering not having wedding day toasts. I'm concerned about what they would say as well as the fact that my sister in particular is not a good public speaker.....she's shy and quite and I know this would be a huge stress for her.......The first thing she asked me when I asked her to be my MOH was "Ok.....I don't have to make a speech do I?" This topic came up tonight and DF's parents both had a fit over the fact that we weren't having speeches......saying "oh well you at least need to let S do his, he'll do a good job!" I told them if one did it the other would have to and it's just not somthing we want. At which point FFIL sai to me "you need to let go of some things or you'll end up being a bridezilla!" Ok.......that was way harsh! So far i've been nothing but polite when saying no to certain ideas and I have no intentions of becomming a bridezilla........ So my question to you all is what do you think? I thought if they wanted they could say somthing on the wedding video instead, that way theres no pressure......Have you ever seen a wedding with no toasts and if so did the bride/groom do somthing in place of it? Like an attendent dance or somthing? Thanks!