I'm so excited about trying to do this for Husband, but when I called a few weeks ago they said, call back 7 days out. So I called again this past week and the lady didn't know what I was even talking about. So I got off the phone and called back to get someone different. She didn't know either but put me on hold and came back to report that, um, the policy had been changed in the past few days and now it must be requested in person. Does anyone have any recent experience with participating in this ceremony or have a better number I can try? Thanks so much!