Thank you so much for all the info.
One difference - we are still using IOS 7 and not 8. :/
So I don't see "Find My Phone" anywhere. Just a general "location services" to turn off or on.
So do we need to update to 8 to use those features? Heard so much bad press about 8 just haven't done it.
Thx
Find My iPhone is in the Settings -> iCloud section. It should be the option all the way down at the bottom.
You can turn Location Services on, and then grant individual apps the ability to use location services. Each app should prompt you when it first tries to access your GPS asking for permission, and you can then change it after the fact through Settings->Privacy->Location Services. For instance, if you don't like Apple Maps, but would rather use Google Maps, then you would need to turn on Location Services, and all Google Maps to use it. However, you may not want Facebook or Twitter to know where you are, so you would deny them access to your GPS information.