I second the response about joining a local Mothers of Multiples group. If you need help finding one PM me and I will find one for you There is a national group but I think less and less local groups are maintaining a relationship with them due to social networking and cost savings. The group Im in does a lot for pregnant moms once their babies are born. Gifts, several dinners and lots of support. My twins are 7 1/2 and I've been an active members for I years. My twins, husband and I have made life long friends from this group. Enjoy the ride!