Trouble with Crushes

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  1. casoue10

    casoue10 Earning My Ears

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    I'm having guy trouble. I really like this guy in my grade :love: , but I get the feeling he doesn't notice me. He's only in one of my classes and I'm a "quiet girl". I'm in 8th grade and never dated b4. Plus he's popular in our small school. How's a girl like me supposed to get a guy like him?? I need help now. I think I'm in love :lovestruc
     
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  3. MuNkY

    MuNkY Momma don't cry. I just wanna stay high.

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    A lot of guys like quiet girls.:confused3

    But other than that, I can't really give you too much advice. I have a few more things to say, but I would get flamed off the boards.
     
  4. Princess Ash

    Princess Ash <font color=deeppink>Disney Princess<br><font colo

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    First off...8th grade and never dated is not a bad thing. I had a sorta-bf-for-a-short-while in 8th grade, but didn't really have a real bf til my freshman year in college. After that, i had a 2 year, 3 month relationship :goodvibes .
    So don't worry about being behind in that area.

    Second..."a girl like you"...you need some confidence girly!!! There is no "girl like you..." You ARE you! You're an individual! You sound sweet, intelligent, and like you are a lot of fun! Have faith and believe in yourself. You hafta have confidence! I wish I had the confidence in middle school that I do now...not arrogance...confidence.

    Third...To get him? You gotta break outta that quiet shell for a short while, cuz guys at that age...even if they like you...won't say anything. You know, he may be pretty shy in his own way. My advice...next school dance, or something like that...get up the nerve and ask him to dance!!! Don't want to be that bold? Ask him what a hw assignment is, casually ask him how his weekend was (whenever u come in contact with him)...little things like that.

    Fourth...Watch those emotions, lol...we are a very loving community here...we don't want you to get hurt. If this guy isn't right for you...then someone else will be. If he doesn't pay attention to you...then it's DEFINITELY his loss! I know it's easy for me to say now...but trust me...from someone who has been EXACTLY where you are...............you'll grow into your own. And if a bf doesn't come along now...there surely will be one in ur future!!!

    Good luck!!!
    Keep us posted (and hope this helped!!!)

    <3Ash

    PS-

    :wizard:

    (Pixie dust for a little extra help, haha!)
     
  5. XoXGerardLoverXoX

    XoXGerardLoverXoX IN THE MIDDLE OF A GUN FIGHT IN THE CENTER OD A RE

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    True, True becuase I liked this kid and he liked me and I was queit and yea so....
    (BTW this is Morgan (UJust Got PUNKD on my new user :teeth: )
     
  6. PolynessianBaby

    PolynessianBaby Detroit Basketball! *Tayshaun is my Prince!*

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    Basically everything Princess Ash said....Just be your self...Talk to him and be confident...It's not bad to be in 8th grade with no b/f experience...I'm in 10th grade and I have only had a couple...1 that lasted for a while. So just stay confident and be yourself, talk to him and don't be nervous. Maybe start out by being just friends.:D
    Taylor*
     
  7. MuNkY

    MuNkY Momma don't cry. I just wanna stay high.

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    Why do you have so many user names?
     
  8. swimturtle115

    swimturtle115 Earning My Ears

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    hey how do you get a buncha user names? why wont anybody talk 2 me geese i am new and everything and i am al a lone plus al u other people sound alot older than me i am 2 years behind bein a teen but not 4 long hahahahah!
     
  9. MuNkY

    MuNkY Momma don't cry. I just wanna stay high.

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    You have two posts. We havn't had the chance. :confused3
     
  10. Princess Ash

    Princess Ash <font color=deeppink>Disney Princess<br><font colo

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    Hi! Welcome to the DIS! So that makes you 11? My goodness, you kids are starting young! You're only a year older than my lil bro!

    Anyways, welcome to the DIS! If you want people to say hi...I'd suggest making a new thread and letting people know who you are! Anyways, have fun!!! :wave2: :wave:
     
  11. DollfieDreams

    DollfieDreams <font color=navy>...thinks riku is sexy<font color

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    honey, just follow what the Princess said and you'll be just fine. ^_^ i know how you feel, im going through the same thing, but i only see my.."crush" every other couple of months. im hopeless, but you on the other hand need to shoot for the moon. remember, you only live once! :goodvibes
     
  12. Princess Ash

    Princess Ash <font color=deeppink>Disney Princess<br><font colo

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    WOW...after reading this post 3 times...I realized that I wrote that I didn't have my first real bf til my frosh year of COLLEGE! How could that be considering i'm NOT EVEN IN COLLEGE YET???

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    I meant my frosh year of high school. :goodvibes

    Anyways, follow your heart...if you make a mistake, at least you'll know you followed your heart.

    Keep us posted!
     
  13. XoXGerardLoverXoX

    XoXGerardLoverXoX IN THE MIDDLE OF A GUN FIGHT IN THE CENTER OD A RE

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    I dont know.....
     
  14. pugslee

    pugslee Pug Lover<br><font color=red>Take my advice, hug a

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    wow, I'm pretty quiet and never really realized that. but there's this one girl that is much more quieter than me, and the guys are all over her.
     
  15. casoue10

    casoue10 Earning My Ears

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    Thanks a lot. (esp. Princess Ash)
    Hey I ordered him a flower, for Valintine's Day, thru a school fundraiser. It's pink for "secret admirer". :lovestruc I am not going to tell him it's from me though. Oh well, I'll get around to it. ;) Thanks again.
     
  16. casoue10

    casoue10 Earning My Ears

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    Wow .....Im totally over HIM Now. Y? Well, I got tired of waiting, I saw him hugging his GF:sad1: , and he isnt worth my time. And He never knew... and probably never will.:ssst: (I liked him from June 2005-December 2006. (One and a Half YEARS!!)) I think its time to move on.
     
  17. swimer3

    swimer3 You'll never be old and wise, if you aren't young

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    I've liked the same boy for.... 2 1/2 years.
    And I'm still not over him.
    I'm just pathetic.
    and a 'fraidycat
     
  18. Sparx

    Sparx DIS Veteran

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    I REALLY liked the same boy for two months(I had a little crush for about a year, but I mean, serious)...we're a week away from our 5 month anniversary.
    take a chance. if he's free, pounce. He's free game, so go play.
     
  19. casoue10

    casoue10 Earning My Ears

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    My Advice. Drop him a BIG hint now before u do like me. I still kinda like him but I convinced myself that I should just move on. (Plus my man was seeing someone) So.... yeah leave a BIG hint and see....either u'll keep liking him from a distance or mayb he'll get the hint and u to could be closer. ;)
     
  20. Captain Brain

    Captain Brain <font color=teal>School is so draining<br><img src

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    Do what Ash and Shelby said. They're right.

    Follow your heart, and do what you want to. :)
     
  21. swimer3

    swimer3 You'll never be old and wise, if you aren't young

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    problem is, he's my best friend.
    I dont want to mess things up or make it akward.

    But I am thinking about asking him to Sadie Hawkin's Dance. just as friends though.
     

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