When I got engaged three years ago, I had my wedding party already picked out. I asked all my girls and they all said yes. Well, one girl that is in my party, I'm not really friends with any more. She's moving about 2 hours away and we don't even talk any more. She went and got married and didn't even tell me . I don't really want her in my wedding party any more. She doesn't support me, and that's the job of bridesmaids. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and we both still want her to come to the wedding. I just don't know how to go about telling her we don't want her in the wedding any more. sigh.