I am bringing my baby, I know gratuity is up to us, but they suggest prices and it say's "including children" Now, I am sorry, but there is no way I am leaving a tip from the baby when he is not even being served or anything. I know I will leave more than the suggested price, because, for instance, $4 for the head server seems way to small and I was a server myself, so I always tip well. Another Question: When we have our "server" that stays with us for the length of the trip, do we let the hostess know who he/she is at breakfast or lunch? How does this whole server deal work? I mean, I know for dinner, we have set times etc., but what about breakfast and lunch, I am wondering how this works.